What a timely invitation from Elder Gary E. Stevenson: “Peacemaking is to lead with an open heart, not a closed mind. It is to approach one another with extended hands, not clenched fists.”
Peacemaking is not weakness—it’s Christlike strength. It takes courage to soften our hearts when the world rewards outrage and suspicion. The Savior blessed the peacemakers (Matthew 5:9; 3 Nephi 12:9) and taught that “he that hath the spirit of contention is not of me” (3 Nephi 11:29). An open heart looks like patience, gentleness, and a willingness to really listen (Ephesians 4:2–3; Moroni 7:45). Extended hands look like unity and charity even when we disagree (Mosiah 18:21; Romans 12:18).
Where can we begin?
- Listen to understand before responding. Ask, “Help me see what you see.”
- Trade reaction for reflection: pause, breathe, and pray (Proverbs 15:1).
- Assume good intent; correct with kindness (Moroni 7:45–47).
- Apologize quickly; forgive freely (3 Nephi 13:14–15).
- Serve someone you disagree with; love melts distance (John 13:34; Hymns, “Love One Another”).
Peacemaking doesn’t mean surrendering truth. It means carrying truth the way Jesus did—firm in conviction, rich in compassion, and always with outstretched hands. As we practice the way of the Prince of Peace, the promise follows: “Learn of me, and listen to my words… and ye shall have peace in me” (D&C 19:23; see also D&C 59:23).
Today, where can you open your heart a little wider and unclench your fists a little sooner?
Recent Comments